Thursday, August 13, 2015
The Final Week
Sorry that it has been awhile since my last update! I have been away from internet and traveling, so I have not had a chance to update you all on my last week in Paraguay. Now I am in North Carolina for my SIM debrief and will arrive back in Oregon TONIGHT! =)
On Monday, I visited some public high schools in Villarrica. I wanted to see how a public school compares to the private school where I was teaching English, so the Youth Pastor's wife let me come with her to her science classes that she teaches. I was able to talk to the principal and hear some of what happens. I also introduced myself to some of the students. The Youth Pastor's wife is a traveling teacher...as in she goes from school to school to teach Science. So after the first school, I strapped on my helmet, and jumped on the back of her moto to travel to the next school. Motos on bumpy roads are always exciting =). At the second school, I visited with the seniors in her physics class. Since they didn't want to learn physics, they had lots of different questions for me. Some of them tried to teach me some Guarani, and enjoyed laughing at my horrible pronunciations. One funny thing that happened in the classroom was when the Laura (the youth pastor's wife) gave me a cup of water when I was writing on the chalkboard and told me it was like a cup of terere, to refresh. I had no idea why she was giving it to me, and promptly set it down. When she stepped out of the room for a minute, I didn't want to be rude so I took a small sip. The water tasted a little funky....almost like chalk. I still am not sure what it was for. Was the taste from the fact that it wasn't filtered water? Was it for dipping the chalk in to make it work better? Was it really just to drink? In any case, it was a funny cultural experience, and I didn't die. =)
On Monday afternoon I went to the pastor's house to help his wife learn how to use a computer. I wasn't sure how I would be able to help, because although I know how to use computers, I don't know that much about them. However, I soon realized that the pastor's wife probably has never touched a computer in her life. I showed her how to turn it on, how to work a mouse, how to open and save documents, and how to safely turn the computer back off. I also helped the pastor learn to make calls on his new smartphone. Who knew that God would use me to help with technology?! But it was a blessed time with the pastor and his wife, and hopefully will be a blessing to their ministry as well as they continue to learn to use technology to reach out to the younger generation.
I continued to see a lot of improvement in the classrooms as the teacher took on a lot of new management and teaching strategies. If I had come in as the head teacher and then left, the kids would continue on as normal. However, because I was able to work alongside the teachers and train them with some new skills, my ministry will continue now that I am gone. The kids are learning to respect their teacher, and the teacher is learning to manage the kids. I even got to talk about what I saw at the school and what improvements could occur with the principal. She was desperate for some ideas, so both Karen and I were able to give her some ideas of how to improve the school.
On Wednesday night, the English teachers and I got together again. One of them invited the get together to be at Karen's house, so they came over with pizza. We just talked for awhile and enjoyed time together before I had to leave. It was a good last get together to celebrate our friendship.
On Friday, my last day at the school, a good friend announced to the kids that it was my last day at their weekly chapel service. As I walked to the front, the whole school groaned that I would be leaving. Even the man making the announcement became teary-eyed in having to say good-bye. It was a day of taking pictures with the kids, receiving notes and gifts, and being hugged by kids I have grown to love. It is always hard to say good-bye, but I am so glad I had the experience of getting to be part of the lives of these precious kids and I know God will continue to minister to them in the coming years.
On Saturday morning, the church's kids club started back up after being cancelled for a few months. I am so glad I got to stay around to see it. There were about 9 kids present, mostly older kids. The pastor sat among them and sang loudly in their midst. He embraced a young, wild boy and gently encouraged him to behave. It is the best I have ever seen that boy behave. The pastor's wife gave the message. Karen led a game. Overall, it was a fun time for the kids and they got to hear about Jesus at their own level. Satan didn't want it to happen because on the way there, the car wouldn't start, and then Karen's computer shut down and we had to wait for it to st art back up with all the kids sitting there. I entertained them with a fun kids' song, and the car eventually started. So Satan lost the battle, again =)
After good-byes to friends and places in Villarrica, Karen and I left to Asuncion. On the way there, we stopped in Caacupe, which is the place claimed to have received the Paraguayan Virgin Mary. Every Catholic country has a version of the Virgin that becomes a source of worship. In this particular city, a huge cathedral is built in her honor and people travel from all over to pay their visit to this "sacred" place. The cathedral was quite impressive, but it was sad to see so many people on their knees in worship to the statue of the Virgin Mary.
Before arriving back in the US, I spent a blessed 3 days with my Compassion sister in Lima, Peru. It was a wonderful, unforgettable time with my Peruvian family.
PRAYER REQUESTS:
*Pray for my re-entry time back home. It is always hard to try to share your experiences with people who weren't there.
*Pray for the people I left behind in Paraguay, that God would continue to encourage them, teach them, and lead them closer to himself.
*Pray for my mentor Karen who is at risk of being sent back home if her funds don't come in. She is only at about 30% and her ministry to the Paraguayans is so important. I know that God has a plan, but I pray that she will be able to remain in the country.
Sunday, August 2, 2015
The Week in Pictures
Celebrating Friendship and Good Times....and a Dozen Puppies?!
Week Number 7 has come to an end, and I have one more week left! I can't believe how fast the time is coming to an end. I am ready to come home, but I am going to miss it here too, my other home. I feel comfortable here, and I feel at home here....except for that Mark is way too far away! Here is what the last week has looked like:
*ALONE WITH PUPPIES: On Tuesday, my other Short-Term partner Laurel left to go back to the states. Karen took her to Asuncion, so I was home alone for a few days. While I was here alone, Shera (the dog that lives here) started to give birth to her puppies. I was sitting quietly in the living room almost ready to go to bed when I heard little squeaks coming from the other room. When I opened the door, I saw Shera and 2 puppies. I stayed in the room for awhile and watched her give birth to 3 other puppies before I went to bed. When I woke up in the morning....there were TWELVE puppies!!!!
*TEACHING AND TUTORING: This week the teacher I help started using some of my ideas for managing the class and teaching. She is doing a lot better and the kids are starting to respect her more. I even made a little booklet of teaching ideas for her so that she can continue to use the ideas after I leave. I hope that I made her job a little easier, since trying to teach a crazy class is very tiring and frustrating! I also hope that some of the skills I passed on to her will help the kids pick up some more English. This week I only tutored 2 students, but both are doing a good job. The youngest one is able to have simple conversations with me in English now.
*NO INTERNET: The most frustrating thing about this week was that we had no internet until Friday. Karen never received the bill, so she never paid it. Since she never paid it, they cut the line. When she went down to pay the bill, they said they would get it up and running in 24 hours. It didn't come back in 24 hours. Or 48 hrs. Or 72 hrs. Eventually the internet company came by to check on it only to discover that when it wasn't working, Karen had unplugged it to try to get it to work again and had plugged it into the wrong spot on the wall.....so we thought it was the culture being frustrating, but it was really just user error!
*FAMILY NIGHT: Friday night at the school, it was a special night for families. All the different grades had t-shirts representing their grade, along with some of their parents. They paraded around and had friend competitions. They also sold food to earn money for each class at the school. It was fun to experience, and see some of the families* of my students. Karen called it "organized chaos". Most of the time, we had no idea what was going on, but enjoyed it anyway. Oh Paraguay...
*DIA DE AMISTAD: Here in Paraguay, they celebrate 'Friendship Day' on July 30. However, the whole week has been filled with celebrations of friendship. On the actual day, some of my students gave me candy. That night, a family invited Karen and I to join them for pizza (right after we had finished dinner at the "American time"!) It was a lot of fun to spend time with these friends and get to know them a little better. We also delivered ice cream to a family. At youth group, the lesson was on friendship, and we sang about God's friendship and ate cake and passed out presents to "secret friends". At church this morning, the message was also about friendship, and we had a lunch together to celebrate.
PRAYER REQUESTS:
*That I will h ave energy for my last week. I have many things to do this next week, on top of saying goodbye to many new friends.
*That I will be able to sleep. The last few nights I have had trouble sleeping =(.
*That I will listen to God for anytime I need to share with people in the last moments with them
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Crazy Travels VISUALIZED
Sorry that the pictures are out of order! My computer kept dropping my selections and I had to go back and add them in....
| Mark and I enjoying Iguazu Falls |
| A Paraguayan Soccer Game "Dale dale Cerro..." |
| Mark and I with our friend Manuel |
| Jesuit Ruins |
| Girls Retreat |
| Market in Ciudad de Este |
| Iguazu Falls |
| Iguazu Falls |
| Iguazu Falls |
Crazy Travels
Another week has come and gone!
Although this week ended on a sad note having to say good-bye to Mark, there were many exciting adventures before he left!
After church last Sunday we left for Ciudad de Este, a city on the border of Brazil on the far edge of Paraguay. This is a city known for its black market shopping. When we arrived on Sunday night, we discovered that the city is dead in the evening. We could not find one restaurant open to get dinner. We wandered the streets and saw all the empty market shops. There were few people on the streets. Eventually we gave up and ate dinner at the hotel restaurant, which was very nice. As dead as the city is during the night, it is alive and CRAZY during the day. For as far as the eye can see there are little shops selling "name brand" clothes, shoes, purses, electronics, etc. People were in your face trying to sell their products to you. It was nuts!
That morning we went to Itaipu Dam, the second largest in the world. It was impressive. We drove a bus to take the dam tour, and it took us into Brazil. YES! It was super rainy and stormy that day, which made the dam more active and interesting to see.
*Just a quick note on how sweet Paraguayans are. We got a free ride on a worker transit vehicle because a man invited us on with him since there were 2 spots open. Also, a lady noticed we paid too much for the bus and never received change and made sure we went and asked for our change.*
Later that day we went to "Salto de Monday," which is a whole river pouring down a hillside into a massive waterfall. NOTHING compared to Iguazu though!
We then took a ferry over to Argentina. On the way we were in three countries at the same time, Argentina, Brazil, and Paraguay. We found our hotel just in time for a downpour that lasted the rest of the night.
The next day we spent the whole day at Iguazu Falls. These are very impressive. Imagine Niagara Falls X 10. The only bad part of the park were the massive crowds that made it hard to get anywhere quickly. But we managed to get it all in, and went back the next morning to enjoy it one more time before leaving.
After a short time back in Villarrica, we headed to Asuncion to visit our friend from our International Student ministry back in Salem. We stayed at his house (a stark contrast to the small shacks in Yuty!). We got to experience a graduation mass at the cathedral, explore a little of downtown Asuncion, meet his family, and attend a soccer game. You know you are in Paraguay when they sell Chipa and Terere at the game!
I then had to bid farewell to my Mark and our friend took me to the SIM director's house to stay the night. I attended church with them this morning. We sang one song in 4 languages--Spanish, English, Portuguese, and Guarani. It was AWESOME! Now I am safely back in Villarrica and preparing for my last 2 weeks of teaching English to the precious kiddos.
You know you are in Paraguay when....
*Everybody carries around thermoses and little cups and straws to drink their mate or terere wherever they go
*They crowd so many people onto the bus you have NO personal space....and they lady selling food STILL makes her way onto the bus and still somehow manages to walk to the back to sell her chipas
*Referees at the soccer game are guarded by police officers to ward off flying chipa and the large truck that sprays water comes prepared to break up fights against opposing fans
PRAYER REQUESTS
-Pray for Mark and I are we separated again for a few weeks
- Pray that I will be able to serve in the best way as I start teaching again
-Pray that I will connect with anybody God still wants me to form relationships with
-Pray for health and safety (this week I will be home alone for a few days and one of the dogs at the house will have puppies any day...I am praying it won't be when I am here by myself!!)
Although this week ended on a sad note having to say good-bye to Mark, there were many exciting adventures before he left!
After church last Sunday we left for Ciudad de Este, a city on the border of Brazil on the far edge of Paraguay. This is a city known for its black market shopping. When we arrived on Sunday night, we discovered that the city is dead in the evening. We could not find one restaurant open to get dinner. We wandered the streets and saw all the empty market shops. There were few people on the streets. Eventually we gave up and ate dinner at the hotel restaurant, which was very nice. As dead as the city is during the night, it is alive and CRAZY during the day. For as far as the eye can see there are little shops selling "name brand" clothes, shoes, purses, electronics, etc. People were in your face trying to sell their products to you. It was nuts!
That morning we went to Itaipu Dam, the second largest in the world. It was impressive. We drove a bus to take the dam tour, and it took us into Brazil. YES! It was super rainy and stormy that day, which made the dam more active and interesting to see.
*Just a quick note on how sweet Paraguayans are. We got a free ride on a worker transit vehicle because a man invited us on with him since there were 2 spots open. Also, a lady noticed we paid too much for the bus and never received change and made sure we went and asked for our change.*
Later that day we went to "Salto de Monday," which is a whole river pouring down a hillside into a massive waterfall. NOTHING compared to Iguazu though!
We then took a ferry over to Argentina. On the way we were in three countries at the same time, Argentina, Brazil, and Paraguay. We found our hotel just in time for a downpour that lasted the rest of the night.
The next day we spent the whole day at Iguazu Falls. These are very impressive. Imagine Niagara Falls X 10. The only bad part of the park were the massive crowds that made it hard to get anywhere quickly. But we managed to get it all in, and went back the next morning to enjoy it one more time before leaving.
After a short time back in Villarrica, we headed to Asuncion to visit our friend from our International Student ministry back in Salem. We stayed at his house (a stark contrast to the small shacks in Yuty!). We got to experience a graduation mass at the cathedral, explore a little of downtown Asuncion, meet his family, and attend a soccer game. You know you are in Paraguay when they sell Chipa and Terere at the game!
I then had to bid farewell to my Mark and our friend took me to the SIM director's house to stay the night. I attended church with them this morning. We sang one song in 4 languages--Spanish, English, Portuguese, and Guarani. It was AWESOME! Now I am safely back in Villarrica and preparing for my last 2 weeks of teaching English to the precious kiddos.
You know you are in Paraguay when....
*Everybody carries around thermoses and little cups and straws to drink their mate or terere wherever they go
*They crowd so many people onto the bus you have NO personal space....and they lady selling food STILL makes her way onto the bus and still somehow manages to walk to the back to sell her chipas
*Referees at the soccer game are guarded by police officers to ward off flying chipa and the large truck that sprays water comes prepared to break up fights against opposing fans
PRAYER REQUESTS
-Pray for Mark and I are we separated again for a few weeks
- Pray that I will be able to serve in the best way as I start teaching again
-Pray that I will connect with anybody God still wants me to form relationships with
-Pray for health and safety (this week I will be home alone for a few days and one of the dogs at the house will have puppies any day...I am praying it won't be when I am here by myself!!)
Saturday, July 18, 2015
Ruins, a Horse, and a Girl's Retreat
When I wrote my last blog, I was in Yuty, since then, I have visited some historical sights, had an "exciting" adventure with livestock and a tow truck, and served young women back in Villarrica. Here is what the week has looked like:
After leaving Yuty, Karen (my mentor), Laurel and Lucas (other short-termers), and Mark and I headed Southeast to visit some old Jesuit Ruins. In the 1700s, the Jesuits came to evangelize to the Guarani and built churches and mission houses. They got kicked out by the Portuguese slave traders, so most of their work has been left to ruins. One night we heard that they light the ruins up for a special night show, and when we asked about it, they said it was happening that night. However, when we got there, they called in special favors from the tour guide and light artist so that we could have a good show. Their generosity and kindness to us but so sweet. It was interesting to see some of the history of the country I have been living in.
On the way home from the ruins, and almost all the way back to Villarrica, Karen was driving down the highway when suddenly there was a large horse in the middle of her lane. She pressed hard on the brakes and hoped that the horse would move, but he never did. The car rammed into the horse's rear end, in which the horse sat on the hood of the car while we pushed him a few feet until he fell over. At this point, we ran over the horse's body. We pulled over to the side of the road because the car was smoking and the entire front of the hood was smashed in. The horse however, got up and WALKED AWAY! We have no idea HOW the horse survived, but he did, at least for that time. All people that were in the car are also ok, but the car is in the shop. We had to call in favors to get home and we had to contact the SIM office to call in a tow truck to get the car to the shop . Now we are experiencing how to get around without a car, like many Paraguayans.
Once back in Villarrica, we started to prepare for this weekend's girl's retreat to be held at Karen's house. I was asked to teach a lesson, so I taught the youth group girls how to read the Bible and pray during Quiet Time with God, I also shared my testimony. I did a lot of the talking, and also translated for people, God really is showing how to be a leader and giving me the strength to do what is needed of me. About 10 girls from the church and Karen's old neighborhood came. We had worship time, watched Fireproof, had a few lessons, did art and nails, and enjoyed time together. It was a lot of fun and hopefully the girls enjoyed it as well. I wasn't in the room with the girls all night, but apparently they stayed up until 5am talking. Oh girls.... =)
Tomorrow Mark and I get on a bus and head to see Iguazu Falls! Yay!
Prayer Requests:
*That Karen's car will be fixed in a timely manner and will not be too expensive. Also, that she will be able to continue to minister to people far away without her car at the time being.
*That Mark will be able to serve people in his short time here (he has already been asked to help in several ways, and will probably be asked again!)
*That God will keep me focused on continuing to build relationships for my last few weeks here.
Cultural Notes:
*Paraguayans will go out of their way to make sure you feel welcome
*They carry a thermos and little cup and tea straw around with them everywhere like Americans carry coffee cups
After leaving Yuty, Karen (my mentor), Laurel and Lucas (other short-termers), and Mark and I headed Southeast to visit some old Jesuit Ruins. In the 1700s, the Jesuits came to evangelize to the Guarani and built churches and mission houses. They got kicked out by the Portuguese slave traders, so most of their work has been left to ruins. One night we heard that they light the ruins up for a special night show, and when we asked about it, they said it was happening that night. However, when we got there, they called in special favors from the tour guide and light artist so that we could have a good show. Their generosity and kindness to us but so sweet. It was interesting to see some of the history of the country I have been living in.
On the way home from the ruins, and almost all the way back to Villarrica, Karen was driving down the highway when suddenly there was a large horse in the middle of her lane. She pressed hard on the brakes and hoped that the horse would move, but he never did. The car rammed into the horse's rear end, in which the horse sat on the hood of the car while we pushed him a few feet until he fell over. At this point, we ran over the horse's body. We pulled over to the side of the road because the car was smoking and the entire front of the hood was smashed in. The horse however, got up and WALKED AWAY! We have no idea HOW the horse survived, but he did, at least for that time. All people that were in the car are also ok, but the car is in the shop. We had to call in favors to get home and we had to contact the SIM office to call in a tow truck to get the car to the shop . Now we are experiencing how to get around without a car, like many Paraguayans.
Once back in Villarrica, we started to prepare for this weekend's girl's retreat to be held at Karen's house. I was asked to teach a lesson, so I taught the youth group girls how to read the Bible and pray during Quiet Time with God, I also shared my testimony. I did a lot of the talking, and also translated for people, God really is showing how to be a leader and giving me the strength to do what is needed of me. About 10 girls from the church and Karen's old neighborhood came. We had worship time, watched Fireproof, had a few lessons, did art and nails, and enjoyed time together. It was a lot of fun and hopefully the girls enjoyed it as well. I wasn't in the room with the girls all night, but apparently they stayed up until 5am talking. Oh girls.... =)
Tomorrow Mark and I get on a bus and head to see Iguazu Falls! Yay!
Prayer Requests:
*That Karen's car will be fixed in a timely manner and will not be too expensive. Also, that she will be able to continue to minister to people far away without her car at the time being.
*That Mark will be able to serve people in his short time here (he has already been asked to help in several ways, and will probably be asked again!)
*That God will keep me focused on continuing to build relationships for my last few weeks here.
Cultural Notes:
*Paraguayans will go out of their way to make sure you feel welcome
*They carry a thermos and little cup and tea straw around with them everywhere like Americans carry coffee cups
Monday, July 13, 2015
The Adventure Continues in PICTURES
Dinner with the English Teachers
2 of my Students with Profe Elise
Laurel, me, and Damaris (an English teacher we work with)
Our Fourth of July Party with Friends
Karen with some of the Bible Study Kids
At the Quincenera at the SIM Retreat
Toucan =)
People lined up on the street for the Pope
The Asuncion Crowd waiting to see and hear the Pope
Christian brothers and sisters in the Campo outside of Yuty
2 of my Students with Profe Elise
Laurel, me, and Damaris (an English teacher we work with)
Our Fourth of July Party with Friends
Karen with some of the Bible Study Kids
At the Quincenera at the SIM Retreat
Toucan =)
People lined up on the street for the Pope
The Asuncion Crowd waiting to see and hear the Pope
Christian brothers and sisters in the Campo outside of Yuty
The Fourth Week: Half Way Through!
This is the end of my fourth week here in Paraguay, which marks the half way point! Yay! This week has been full of adventure.
The week started by attending the SIM Spiritual Life Conference for a day and a night. It was encouraging to be part of the SIM family for awhile and to be fed spiritually. We had a traditional quincenera for a young lady who came down to serve at the conference who had her 15 birthday while here.
Unfortunately, after the 4th of July party I started feeling pretty sick to my stomach and woke up that night nauseous. For the rest of the week, including at the conference, I felt pretty sick for the rest of the week. There is a stomach bug going around, and I think that I picked it up. Thankfully I am feeling better now.
I taught classes on Tuesday and Wednesday. When I say taught, I mean I took over the class. I planned some lessons and posted some expectations in order to show the English teach some different strategies. It went really well. The 2nd grade class especially was a COMPLETELY different class. They were so well engaged and behaved! I hope that the teacher picked up some good ideas.
This Friday I left Villarrica for an Asuncion adventure. The best part of the adventure was getting to pick up Mark from the airport! I took the bus for the first time and figured out how to take the taxi from the terminal to the SIM director's house. It was super crazy because the pope was in town and we had to drive through all of the mass of people on the streets.
Mark and I stayed for a few nights in the SIM Guest House in order to experience more of the pope craziness. Saturday morning we went to a zoo and saw monkeys, toucans, parrots, really stinky pig like creatures, alligators, and more. It was awesome!
Then we went to find the pope. The streets were lined with people excited to see their leader. We stepped onto the street behind a chain of volunteers and waited. Then the pope came down the street in a little vehicle and everybody cheered. Then we tried to find the cathedral and the streets were so crowded. Many of them were closed off completely. On Sunday morning we went to the mass and had to tromp through a huge muddy field to get close enough to the pope to see him through binoculars. I have decided that if people worshipped Christ like they worshipped the pope, the world would be a lot better of a place!
Now we are in the middle of rural Paraguay in a small town called Yuty (said Jutew) with a SIM missionary family. It has been fun to see a different part of Paraguay and see some of their ministry. Tomorrow we will head to explore old Jesuit ruins.
PRAYER REQUESTS:
*pray that I will stay healthy from here on out
*pray that my time with Mark will be blessed and that he will learn some of what I have been doing
*pray for my 2 week vacation from classes that I will still find ways to serve and build relationships with people
Saturday, July 4, 2015
4th of July
Happy Independence Day America! Today we are hosting a 4th of July party and inviting some of our Paraguayan friends to celebrate with us. We are going to have an all American party to introduce them to the holiday. We have decorations, traditional foods to serve and barbecue, music, fireworks, and patriotic clothing. So as you all celebrate up North, pray for our party and that it would be beneficial in building relationships!
Thursday, July 2, 2015
Deepening Relationships
This week is flying by fast! This week I have become good friends with the English teachers that I work with. On Monday night they invited me to one their houses for a get together. It was a lot of fun. We just sat together, ate, laughed, and talked. Then on Tuesday night I went back to her apartment to watch Paraguay play in the semi-finals against Argentina. Unfortunately, we lost by too much to mention. BUT, it was a fun cultural experience. When Paraguay scored a goal. fireworks exploded somewhere in the neighborhood. When they didn't and the other team did, the Paraguayan ladies in the house screamed and booed. Both the English teacher and her sister have cute little kids that kept us entertained despite a horrible game.
This weekend we are planning a 4th of July celebration at our house. We are inviting some of our new Paraguayan friends to join us to show them what the American holiday looks like. It should be a lot of fun, and very good for deepening relationships.
I am also starting to feel like I am getting to know some of the awesome people at the church as well. We went to prayer meeting last night and had some good conversations with the church members. I also LOVE the pastor and his wife. They are so sweet. The pastor is 73 yrs old but joins the youth group and even plays the games with all of the young people.
My students always look forward to seeing me and love having me in their classroom. I feel like I am starting to bond with them as well and my heart is starting to go out to some of them, especially when I hear stories of neglect and inattentive parents. It is a privilege to serve and love on these kids.
This weekend is the SIM Spiritual Life conference. We will be leaving on Sunday and spending the night. On Sunday night we will be throwing a Quincenera for an american girl coming down to help. Laurel and I will only get to stay through Monday because we have to return for teaching, but we are excited for the opportunity to get to know the SIM workers a little better and to have a little bit of a change of scenery. It should also be a great time to reflect and learn.
I do feel quite homesick from time to time, especially in the down times. Thankfully, we are gaining more and more students to tutor, which brings the down time down a lot. I am also half way done and soon will be the 2 week break from teaching when Mark gets to join me!
PRAYER REQUESTS:
*Continued deepening relationships with my new friends
*For the many Bible Studies that Karen leads--most are for nominal Christians
*For the SIM Conference
*My homesickness
*Safe travels for Mark as he arrives next Friday
This weekend we are planning a 4th of July celebration at our house. We are inviting some of our new Paraguayan friends to join us to show them what the American holiday looks like. It should be a lot of fun, and very good for deepening relationships.
I am also starting to feel like I am getting to know some of the awesome people at the church as well. We went to prayer meeting last night and had some good conversations with the church members. I also LOVE the pastor and his wife. They are so sweet. The pastor is 73 yrs old but joins the youth group and even plays the games with all of the young people.
My students always look forward to seeing me and love having me in their classroom. I feel like I am starting to bond with them as well and my heart is starting to go out to some of them, especially when I hear stories of neglect and inattentive parents. It is a privilege to serve and love on these kids.
This weekend is the SIM Spiritual Life conference. We will be leaving on Sunday and spending the night. On Sunday night we will be throwing a Quincenera for an american girl coming down to help. Laurel and I will only get to stay through Monday because we have to return for teaching, but we are excited for the opportunity to get to know the SIM workers a little better and to have a little bit of a change of scenery. It should also be a great time to reflect and learn.
I do feel quite homesick from time to time, especially in the down times. Thankfully, we are gaining more and more students to tutor, which brings the down time down a lot. I am also half way done and soon will be the 2 week break from teaching when Mark gets to join me!
PRAYER REQUESTS:
*Continued deepening relationships with my new friends
*For the many Bible Studies that Karen leads--most are for nominal Christians
*For the SIM Conference
*My homesickness
*Safe travels for Mark as he arrives next Friday
Friday, June 26, 2015
New Experiences
Making "curabes" with the youth group, a traditional Paraguayan food
Making "chipas" with the youth group, another traditional food
It isn't all work =)
Some of the kids during recess at school
More kids =)
Learning Dance Moves in my new outfit =)
Making "chipas" with the youth group, another traditional food
It isn't all work =)
Some of the kids during recess at school
More kids =)
Learning Dance Moves in my new outfit =)
The First Week of Teaching
My first week of teaching has come to an end, and it has been quite the adventure. From last week when I was told that I wouldn't be teaching, but just assisting, to now when I realize that I actually have done a lot of the teaching. What a difference! I have come in and stated my expectations. The kids are starting to figure them out. I have stepped up the plate several times in getting the students to behave in a manner more appropriate for school. I have introduced new strategies for learning English. The kids love me to death and give me many hugs.
The week was a little challenging. Trying to manage kids that have never been managed before really wears a person out, and it can be very frustrating. But I must be doing something right because the kids are starting to get it and they really enjoy having me in the classroom. I just hope they will also start picking up more English,,,,
In the afternoons, Laurel and I have been tutoring, One little boy is a hyperactive 3rd grade boy who is really fun. We come up with activities and games for him that allow him to learn while being wild and moving. We also meet a few times a week with a teenage boy and just help him with his English by conversing with him and playing games,
The teenage girl has still been coming over quite often just to hang out. She took us out to get traditional Paraguayan clothes and taught us a few dance moves, We also went to the capybara park and walked around with her and played on the playground (never too old to have fun, right?). We have had many good conversations.
Tomorrow (Saturday) I will be teaching and leading the youth group at the church and the Bible study for the young girls in the morning. I am excited for this opportunity and hope it goes well!
Things I have noticed:
*"Winter" in Paraguay is more like a warm spring.
* Almost no wild animals still exist here, they have all been hunted and eaten,
* It is more likely for me to be considered German than American. Several times people have tried to speak to me in German.
*Rules are made as a guideline, and are usually broken.
PRAYER REQUESTS:
*Pray that my new friend, the teenager who spends time with us, would be able to get a scholarship to go to a good Bible college somewhere. She would be the first and only member of her family to attend college. She wants to be a missionary, but her family does not have the money to support her college dreams,
*Pray for my lessons with the kids and the youth group this weekend.
*Pray that I would have wisdom for when to step in and help the teachers, and when to let it be cultural.
Wednesday, June 24, 2015
Classroom Chaos
I am starting to reaaaaalllly appreciate the very well-behaved students I teach back at home. The teachers here don't have any management strategies, and next to nothing when it comes to knowledge about good teaching practices. It seems to be cultural, but at the same time....it makes me wonder if the kids are learning anything at all. I have been in the classroom for 2 days now. The kids are sweet kids that are very excited to talk to me, but as far as learning goes, I am just not sure it is happening. There is no knowledge of the fact that some kids are just sitting there instead of participating, and no knowledge that some kids are finishing a lot quicker than the other kids. This leads to a lot of problems in management. The kids that are not working are running around like crazy, throwing things at each other, talking to friends, running in and out of the room, and fighting. The teacher does nothing about it. When I get in front of the room to teach, I make sure the kids know my expectations and I follow through with them, I will not let the kids get away with that kind of behavior, but training kids to follow your expectations takes quite awhile....even more so when they have had no expectations for behavior up to this point. They also "learn" by copying words from a book or the board and reading phrases that they don't understand. Needless to say, I introduced many fun learning and English conversation strategies that allow the students to move and participate while having fun.
Even though I don't want to be culturally insensitive to the learning style, I also want to teach the kids as much as I can while I am here, and also perhaps show the teachers some strategies that they can use too.
Even though I don't want to be culturally insensitive to the learning style, I also want to teach the kids as much as I can while I am here, and also perhaps show the teachers some strategies that they can use too.
Monday, June 22, 2015
A Change in Plans (literally)
I woke up early this morning to arrive for my first day of teaching at the school. The principal had told me to come to the office at 7:40 to be escorted to the classroom. When I arrived, the office staff seemed confused. They told me that their schedule said that the teacher that I am assisting doesn't have any English classes for that grade level on Mondays. So apparently the principal had made my schedule based on an old class schedule. So they quickly sent somebody down with my new teaching schedule, which did not include any classes on Monday. So I came back to the house. So teaching starts tomorrow, I hope.
Karen is looking into possibilities....perhaps connecting me with some one on one tutoring options, or with a public school that might like an extra adult to help.
Frustrations with the schedule are just that....frustrating. But I know that God is still using me in ways that maybe I don't even know.
Karen is looking into possibilities....perhaps connecting me with some one on one tutoring options, or with a public school that might like an extra adult to help.
Frustrations with the schedule are just that....frustrating. But I know that God is still using me in ways that maybe I don't even know.
Saturday, June 20, 2015
New Friends
This is my new friend, the capybara. He hangs out at this park and is super chill. You can just walk right up to him and pet him and he doesn't move at all.
These are my new friends that live in the outskirts of town. We were quizzing them on English. The other two American looking people in the picture are my mentor and the other short-termer.
This is the teenager that hangs out at the house all the time. She took us to a museum. She is awesome!
These are my new friends that live in the outskirts of town. We were quizzing them on English. The other two American looking people in the picture are my mentor and the other short-termer.
This is the teenager that hangs out at the house all the time. She took us to a museum. She is awesome!
Flexibility, Friends, and Fun
I have not even been here for one week yet, though it seems like so much has happened.
My official "teaching schedule" starts next week. When I went to connect with the principal yesterday, she informed me that am not actually teaching, but only assisting the English teacher with her English pronunciation and conversing with the students so that they can practice with a native English speaker. However, I don't think things are clearly communicated here, so I won't be surprised if I show up on Monday expected to teach. I am praying for flexibility and preparedness for whatever happens. Also, I only have teaching assignments for the morning. And the schedule is different everyday.
If I don't end up teaching, I am worried that my attitude will get in the way. It is hard for me to just sit back and watch somebody else teach, especially when it seems one of the teachers here is not super organized and doesn't really know what she is doing as a teacher. Maybe she will want my suggestions, maybe she won't. I don't want to step on any toes, but I also want to serve in the best way.
Even though teaching has not officially started, I have had a few opportunities to get into the community. Karen mentors a teenage girl that has spent several afternoons with us. She is on fire for God and strives to live outside of the fleshly world and in the world of Christ. She comes from a very hard family life, but has been mentored by missionaries now for many years. We also got to go into a community out a muddy road and help some sweet girls with their English. Their parents served us mate, the official tea of Paraguay. It is a hot tea that is passed around for everyone to drink from the same straw. It is quite bitter....
Yesterday we went to the marketplace and got to experience all the people trying to sell us their goods. One lady thought we were German. (There is a large German population here and many Paraguayans actually look just like me....blonde hair, blue eyes, and light skin!)
Things I have noticed or learned:
Paraguayans are very superstitious. They won't eat salty and sweet together. They won't eat watermelon before or after a meal, and they won't serve their tea with a meal. They think it will make you sick. They are also very afraid of black dogs.
Almost everybody has a dog to guard their house.
Yesterday I saw 3 dogs chasing 1 cow outside of the house on the street.
PRAYER REQUESTS:
Pray for my attitude as I work with the English teachers.
Pray for wisdom that I would know when to listen and learn, and when to train and teach.
Pray that I would know how to use my time in the afternoon to serve while I am here.
Pray for my new Paraguayan friend that comes from a hard family life, but strives to live for Jesus.
Continue to pray for safety and health.
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Asuncion to Villarrica
I have now survived almost 2 days in Paraguay, although it seems like much longer. This isn't a bad thing, it just takes a lot out of you to take it all in and get accustomed to your surroundings. I have mostly been resting, getting to know people, and traveling.
I spent yesterday in Asuncion with the SIM family because they were all together for a despedida to one of the families that is leaving for a year for their home assignment. We had asado (bbq) and watched Paraguay play Jamaica in the "copa america". Paraguay won 1-0.
Today, my mentor Karen and my other short term team member and roommate, Laurel, traveled to Villarrica where I will be staying for the rest of my time here. I am settled in and getting comfortable in my new temporary home. The house is cozy, and right across from the school where I will be teaching. My mentor is friends with lots of her community members, and some of them come to her house often. I just met one that is very sweet that will go with us tomorrow to the Paraguayan museum. I will also meet the principal of my school tomorrow.
The weather is humid. Yesterday was kind of chilly, but you got hot moving around. Today is rainy, which means more humid. I can't decide if it is hot or cold. I put my sweater on because I am cold, but then I quickly get hot from the humidity. Sounds like an Oregon Spring, right?
Things I have noticed so far:
The livestock is REALLY skinny and run freely from field to field. There is often "cow crossing" across the highway.
Introductions are very important. You stop everything you are doing to get up and greet someone who enters.
When you want to enter someone's house, instead of knocking, you clap outside the gate.
When a store owes you a small amount of change, instead of giving you the minute amount, they give you a piece of candy instead.
I spent yesterday in Asuncion with the SIM family because they were all together for a despedida to one of the families that is leaving for a year for their home assignment. We had asado (bbq) and watched Paraguay play Jamaica in the "copa america". Paraguay won 1-0.
Today, my mentor Karen and my other short term team member and roommate, Laurel, traveled to Villarrica where I will be staying for the rest of my time here. I am settled in and getting comfortable in my new temporary home. The house is cozy, and right across from the school where I will be teaching. My mentor is friends with lots of her community members, and some of them come to her house often. I just met one that is very sweet that will go with us tomorrow to the Paraguayan museum. I will also meet the principal of my school tomorrow.
The weather is humid. Yesterday was kind of chilly, but you got hot moving around. Today is rainy, which means more humid. I can't decide if it is hot or cold. I put my sweater on because I am cold, but then I quickly get hot from the humidity. Sounds like an Oregon Spring, right?
Things I have noticed so far:
The livestock is REALLY skinny and run freely from field to field. There is often "cow crossing" across the highway.
Introductions are very important. You stop everything you are doing to get up and greet someone who enters.
When you want to enter someone's house, instead of knocking, you clap outside the gate.
When a store owes you a small amount of change, instead of giving you the minute amount, they give you a piece of candy instead.
Saturday, June 13, 2015
Ya me voy a Paraguay!
Well, this is it! Tomorrow night I fly out to Paraguay. I have many stops along the way, but will hopefully arrive in Asuncion by 3am on Tuesday morning. Please be in prayer for:
*Safe travel
*That my ears would not hurt while landing (this is always a problem)
*That I wouldn't get too sick (recently, I get pretty nauseous when flying)
*That I would arrive with all my luggage
Thank you for you prayers!
*Safe travel
*That my ears would not hurt while landing (this is always a problem)
*That I wouldn't get too sick (recently, I get pretty nauseous when flying)
*That I would arrive with all my luggage
Thank you for you prayers!
Sunday, May 3, 2015
Important Left-Out Details
Well, I sent out my support letter before realizing that I was missing some important details about the trip. Here is information you may be wondering about:
*This is a short 2-month mission. I will be leaving the week of June 15 and coming back the week of August 10.
*I am supposed to have all my money in a month before I leave....which is in 12 days...
*My husband, Mark, is coming for 2 of the weeks to join me, but he can't take the whole summer off to be there with me the whole time
*For 2 of the weeks, the school will be on winter break, so Mark and I will be traveling around Paraguay to visit other missionary families and explore the country.
*My STA account number is RIGHT on the yellow sheet, but WRONG in the letter. The correct number is: 044099.
*This is a short 2-month mission. I will be leaving the week of June 15 and coming back the week of August 10.
*I am supposed to have all my money in a month before I leave....which is in 12 days...
*My husband, Mark, is coming for 2 of the weeks to join me, but he can't take the whole summer off to be there with me the whole time
*For 2 of the weeks, the school will be on winter break, so Mark and I will be traveling around Paraguay to visit other missionary families and explore the country.
*My STA account number is RIGHT on the yellow sheet, but WRONG in the letter. The correct number is: 044099.
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